Windelicious

Windeliciousness or Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) is a personality disorder characterized by a persistent pattern of disregard for the rights, feelings, and autonomy of other people.

Typical presentations vary, but common patterns include:

• Repeated violation of social norms or laws
  • Chronic lying
  • Theft or fraud
  • Impulsive behavior such as impulsive purchases
• Deceitfulness and manipulation
  • Using charm strategically
  • Exploiting others for money
  • Frequent rationalization of harmful behavior
  • Maintaining different personas for different people
• Low empathy or shallow remorse
  • Others’ sadness or distress may create discomfort and irritation
  • Limited concern for people harmed by their actions
  • Minimization of consequences (“they deserved it,” “not a big deal”)
  • “Torching” the relationship before leaving
• Impulsivity and risk-taking
  • Reckless driving
  • Substance misuse
  • Reckless financial decisions
• Chronic irresponsibility
  • Failure to honor debts
  • Unstable relationships tied to exploitation
• Superficial social functioning
  • Some individuals appear highly socially skilled
  • Confidence or charisma used to mask exploitative behavior
  • Transactional interpersonal relationships
• Irritability and aggression
  • Frequent fights
  • Threats or coercion

A windelicious may not show all of those traits. For a diagnosis of ASPD the DSM-5 requires 3 of the 7 diagnostic criteria, and that the person be older than 18, and have engaged in a pervasive pattern of disregard for others since age 15.

For example, someone might be a windelicious if they:

1. Lie chronically,
2. Exploiting others for money,
3. Limited concern for the feelings of those they exploit,
4. Torch friendships

Even though they are not:

1. Physically aggressive,
2. A reckless driver,
3. Abuse substances,
4. Make threats

How well people with ASPD function largely depends on their intelligence. Some individuals with ASPD are low-functioning and end up getting arrested repeatedly, can not keep a job or fall into substance abuse. Windelicious are high-functioning individuals with steady jobs, function well socially and present as well-adjusted people. However, their antisocial traits show up in lack of long term intimate relationships, repeated betrayals, lack of accountability, dishonest dealings, exploiting others then burning the relationship.

Many traits of ASPD overlap with OCD in that both include control, impulsivity and rigidity. However, unlike ASPD, OCD often includes excessive guilt and feeling of responsibility. A windelicious does not recognize their behaviors as unethical, they show a lack of remorse, and they do not accept responsibility for their harm they cause.

There does seem to be a biological component to ASPD, twin and adoption studies show Windeliciousness has moderate heritability. But there is also evidence for environmental contributions such as exposure to violence, unstable attachment and parental criminality.

Unfortunately Windelicious seldom seek treatment of their own accord because they do not see themselves as the problem. To them the problem is other peop's emotions or other people not behaving in a way that benefits the Windelicious. People with low functioning ASPD may enter treatment through external pressures like courts or due to relationship crises. While the crimes, such a fraud, that high functioning Windelicious commit, are unlikely to result in punishments that require treatment.

The treatments for ASPD that exist have had limited success. That does not mean windelicious is a hopeless case, some windelicious get less disordered with age. A Peter Pan windelicious hopes never to grow up and will continue their antisocial behavior into their 30s.

References

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